Thursday, January 31, 2013

My Daughter was PUSHED on the playground

I am the first to admit, I'm a total nutcase when it comes to my kids. I'm super protective, I don't want them hurt, especially their feelings. It happens, a lot, I know. However, if I can minimize that kind of pain, I try to. The saddest is when it happens within the family, and the kids ask me to explain it.....and I can't. Now? They just don't spend a lot of time with people, family, or not, who insist on treating them so inconsiderately.

What gets me enraged is when my daughter is physically hurt, because that just shouldn't be happening when she's at school. Kids fall, all the time. Sure, I know that. She's come home with scraped knees, elbows, and hands. However, it is normally because she did it on her own, by falling, or tripping.

Well this week, she came home, a note from the nurse with her name spelled wrong AGAIN. It said her knee was scraped, and it was cleaned, ointment put on it, and a band aid was placed on it. I figured she must have tripped. Well, that was not the case. My Little Miss was PUSHED.

Some little brat boy ran up behind her, and pushed her from behind. And kept going. Didn't apologize, didn't ask if she was okay, just looked back, and then kept running to his "class line." Left my daughter to fend for herself. One of her classmates asked if she was okay, as she got up and limped over to her class line to show the teacher's assistant from her class.

Usually, in the past, when she has told me these things, I have exploded.....and then she doesn't want to tell me anything else. This time, I kept that anger inside, and just asked her to be as specific as possible.

Little Miss didn't know the little boy's name.....or, she says she didn't. All she told me was what he looked like, and what line he went to after he pushed her down. I also asked if he accidentally bumped into her while he was running, but she said no, he walked up behind her, pushed her, and then ran to his class line.

Little Miss has her yellow w/black stripe belt!
Are you thinking what I'm thinking? Well, the next time I'm up at a class event, I'm looking for this kid, in his class, and I'm going to casually trip him when no one is looking. Then I'm going to find his parents, and ask them how they would feel if their daughter came home one day, and told them she had been pushed, ON PURPOSE, by a little shit from a different class. I'll see what they say, and then casually let them know what happened to my daughter, thanks to their little brat son.

Is that wrong? I don't care. I'm tired of these brats, and I'm sick of kids being bullies. That was a bully move, and a coward move.

If he had come at her from the front, it would be a whole different story I'd be telling.........and my husband asked "why didn't she bust out her Jiu Jitsu?" I rolled my eyes, "she was pushed from behind, she was walking to her class line, and the kid ran off.....she's not going to run after him and take him down, that's not what she's being taugh."

But secretly, I was thinking the same thing.........



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